Hoarding >> The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children

Living with a person who hoards is very stressful. Unlike people with certain other OC Related Disorders, such as Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD), hoarding directly affects others in the home. While OCD and BDD affects family members emotionally and at times, physically, The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children the effect is generally indirect. 

In other words, family members of most OCD related The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children disorders may be able to avoid the symptoms of the disorder. For example, if a young girl is a compulsive hand washer due to contamination, and spends much time in a specific bathroom, her parents and siblings are able to use the other bathrooms in the home with no more than an inconvenience. 

With hoarding, all of the The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children bathrooms in the home may not work or are so cluttered that it is impossible to reach the shower, toilet or sink.   

Thus, hygiene may become a problem. In addition, utility problems in the home are often unaddressed due to shame that the person who hoards may feel when having a handyman come in to fix the problem. Below, we will The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children address many of the direct effects of hoarding on the person who hoards and the family members living with him/her in the home. 

We will also explore the emotional impact that hoarding may have on the well being of extended family members, or family members who no longer live in the home. For those family members who live with a person who hoards, such as a wife, husband, child, or dependent parent, it is impossible to live in the clutter and not have physical and emotional trauma. 

Not only the clutter, but the person who hoard's need to control all items and areas of the home causes extreme The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children friction and tension. Those with hoarding often attach an emotional, instrumental, or aesthetic value to items. Instrumental value is also referred to as the "just in case" phenomenon. They keep the item "just in case" they may need it at a later time. 

Ironically, when the person who hoards may need that item, they may be unable to find or access it due to the clutter. A primary area of contention is that clutter often results in a loss of once The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children usable living space, even in shared areas (e.g. kitchen, living room, etc.). Usable living space refers to furniture, appliances, countertops, etc., being used as they were intended. 

For example, families are often unable to use their kitchens to cook food and may, therefore, be dependent on ordering take-out daily. This may lead to more financial strain and obesity, because they are spending more money and taking in more calories than they The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children would if they were able to make their own meals. 

Financial strain also results from excessive shopping and the need to get more by Solid Savings" storage The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children facilities (chests, lockers, garages, sheds, etc.). It can lead to debt; purchases are often not discussed; credit cards may be "maxed out", and money therefore cannot be allocated to purchases that other family members may need or want. 

Often, the rationale for this extra storage is to regain some usable living space. Ironically, at the beginning these facilities are useful but if hoarding behaviors are not addressed, it is likely that usable living space will once The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children again become overrun with even more clutter. Not only do people who hoard often claim parts of the home that are for other family members, but the control of how that space is used or what items should be thrown away is often up to them. 

Family members aren't allowed to make decisions, which leads to feelings that family members are living in someone else's home, causing discomfort and The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children disrespect. They no longer have the ability to decide the way in which they live and their power is stripped from them. They feel vulnerable and unstable. Essentially, family members are forced to live in chaos. 

Family members may get so frustrated with clutter that they will attempt to clean or organize without the person who hoards knowing, which always results in more The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children arguments and fights. In addition, behaviors may get worse due to this "deception." Those who hoard may feel violated and lose trust in family members. 

The lack of trust may make them more paranoid and protective of their items. This often leads to an increase in checking behaviors (e.g. check the garbage cans to make sure something important was not thrown out). Children of those who hoard often cannot avoid living in the clutter, which affects their The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children social lives. 

Children are often too embarrassed to have The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children friends come over, or are not allowed to, due to their parent's embarrassment. This may lead to isolation, helplessness, and resentment. Spouses often consider divorce or separation because of the hoarding and may also worry about responsibilities to the children that are not being met. 

The children feel torn between the parent who hoards, and the parent who does not. Children tend to be very secretive The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children about the hoarding problem, but feel depressed and angry due to the sacrifices that they are expected to make on account of compulsive hoarding. If the non-hoarding parent decides to ask for a divorce, a custody battle may ensue. 

Often, pictures of the home are taken to court to convince the court that the home environment is not suitable for bringing up a child. The The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children individual who hoards is not only embarrassed but feels much resentment, interfering with the ability to bring up the child jointly. Further legal issues may arise should a neighbor become aware of the home situation and call child protective services (CPS). 

If this happens, an The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children investigation may ensue. This may result in the removal of the children from the home unless one of the parents makes other living arrangements. Whether the child lives in clutter or is removed from the home, the end result is devastating, and the effect of these events often serves to increase the person's hoarding, as a source of comfort. 

Adult children often have a very strained The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children relationship with their hoarding parent. As adult children move out of the home, they may become estranged from their hoarding relative due to disagreements about how hoarding should be handled. Adult children may also blame the parent for the condition in which they were forced to live as a child. 

As these children marry and have children of their own, they are most likely resistant to ever bringing their children over to their parent's The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children home. They are embarrassed and would not like their children to model the hoarding behaviors they see. Therefore, grandparents may be isolated from their grandchildren as hoarding may be seen as a bad influence. 

Not only does this create distance in the family, but the person who hoards becomes even more isolated. Adult children often copy or oppose the behavior that they The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children witnessed as a child. Either hoarding behaviors are learned and repeated, despite living separately, or the adult child, embarrassed and disgusted at how they lived, keep next to nothing. 

For example, if a daughter has observed her mother's hoarding early in life, and then moves out, she may be more likely to develop her own hoarding problem as a result of watching her The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children mother. 

In addition, if a divorce resulted due to the hoarding, adult children may blame the break up of their The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children family on the person who hoarded. They may have been taken away from their parent, causing feelings of abandonment, as though inanimate objects meant more to their parents than they did. 

This causes significant psychological distress and often impacts their future relationship behaviors. Not only do the affected The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children family members suffer the physical and emotional effects of hoarding, but so does the person who hoards. For example, the person who hoards may resent loved ones who offer advice, but little help. 

Those who live alone may resent family members that stay away. Extended family members may feel shame related to the hoarding problem in the family and will keep the person who hoards from the rest of the The Effects Of Parental Hoarding On Young Children family.

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